Thursday, June 30, 2011

Vision Board

What is an Vision board?



Well, it's anything you want it to be! Basically it's a photo collage of what inspires you, drives you, helps you reach your goals, keeps you focused, makes you happy or just makes you laugh.

What is usually on a vision board?
What do you want in your life? What are your dreams? What are your hopes? What inspires you? Where to you want to go and where to you want to be? What kind of person do you want to grow into?

How it works?
Every day when you wake up (after you have said what you are grateful for), look at your vision board and get into the state of mind of already having these things.

My Vision Board

Some of you might be thinking that this is crazy. I truly believe that a vision board can help you in whatever way you need it to. For me, it has really helped me realize how much of what I have always wanted, I already have. I am so grateful for the things I do have now; like a wonderful husband, a roof over my head, warm meals, and clothes on my back. I loved putting my hopes and dreams for the future because every day when I wake up I actually visualize that I already have those things. I also am reminded of what I want in life, so each day I am reminded to work a little harder for that goal. Weather it's staying positive about my next IVF cycle or supporting my husband when he has to get work done. If anything, it's a fun project to do with your husband and share your boards with each other..
Try it...make your own and share it! 











Wednesday, June 22, 2011

The Colors of IVF

Colors of IVF 


The Blues- feeling of sadness, desperation, isolation, and bone-tired weariness from months of disappointment.

The Greens- unbridled jealousy of sisters and cousins and colleagues with kids. Even complete strangers that parade their perfect babies down the street in their fancy strollers just to spite us (or so it seems).

The Purples- the mood swings from the hormones that make your husband want to run for the hills and make you want to eat everything in site.

The Oranges- the countless doctors appointments and tests. Feeling like you are a human pin cushion or a lab rat. 

The Reds- pure, fire stroked rage at your insurance company for not covering treatments, and at your body for not delivering on it's promise.

The Yellows- the occasional bursts of hope that nurtures our spirits and keep us optimistic. Those sunny jolts that remind us, with treatment, our dreams of babies are real possibilities

(some content from an author whom I have come to love, I love her honestly- Liza Charlesworth)


Sunday, June 19, 2011

Father's Day




RIP Adam Humes who was taken from his family to soon. I wish I could have met you! You definitely made an amazing son. Can't wait to carry on your spirit and name through our children. 





My Opa

My Opa (Grandpa) passed away last December,We all miss him very much! RIP Opa in the beautiful ocean. 


To My Dad-

What Makes A Dad

God took the strength of a mountain,
The majesty of a tree,
The warmth of a summer sun.
The calm of a quiet sea,
The generous soul of nature,
The comforting arm of night,
The wisdom of the ages,
The power of the eagle's flight,
The joy of morning in the spring,
The faith of a mustard seed,
Then patience of eternity,
The depth of a family need,
Then God combined these qualities,
When there was nothing more to add,
He knew his masterpiece was complete,
and so...he called it Dad.
Author is unknown










Thursday, June 16, 2011

Yummy Chicken Pesto Pasta

Chicken Pesto Pasta



Ingredients 

2 chicken breast halves (I used pre-sliced frying chicken breasts from Gelsons)
1 table spoon of salt, divided (I am not a salt person, so I left it out)
3/4 tablespoons of ground pepper divided
cooking spray
20 onces of uncooked bow tie pasta 
1 tablespoon of butter
3 garlic cloves, minced
1 1/2 cups of fat free milk, divided 
2 tablespoons of all purpose flour
3.5 onces of commercial pesto sauce (I used Classico)
3/4 cups of half and half
1-2 cups of Parmesan Cheese
1/2 cup of fresh basil, chopped


Instructions

Coat medium size skillet with cooking spray. Sprinkle chicken with 1/4 tablespoon pepper. Place chicken in skillet and cook until chicken is cooked through. Remove from heat, let stand for 5 minutes. Cut chicken into 1/2 inch pieces, keep warm.
Cook pasta according to package directions. Drain pasta and place into a large bowl.
Heat butter in a medium saucepan over medium heat. Add garlic to pan, cook for 1 minute, stirring occasionally. Combine 1/2 cup of milk and flour in a small bowl, stirring with a whisk. Add milk mixture to pan, stirring constantly with a whisk. Add remaining 1 cup of milk and half-and-half, stirring constantly with a whisk. Cook 8 minutes or until sauce thickens, stirring constantly. Add 1/2 teaspoon of pepper, and 1 cup of cheese. Stir until cheese melts.
Add chicken, sauce, and basil to pasta. Toss well and sprinkle with cheese. Serve immediately and enjoy!

serving size- 2 cups

This is my husband's favorite dish and it's low in calories! 


Wednesday, June 15, 2011

FREE Blanket Giveaway

Lullaby Blankie's FREE blanket giveaway!!! 


What will you win? 3 lucky winners will win a FREE super soft minky blankie.

How it works? The first 3 people to get 25 of their friends to "like" our Facebook fan page by Monday June 20th gets a FREE minky blankie!
You can either re-post this link to your page ( http://www.facebook.com/pages/Lullaby-Blankies/140898392647342) or just let people know to visit our fan page and "like" it. Please make sure that new fans post on Lullaby Blankie's wall to let us know who sent them. Example: New Fan! Sent by Stephanie Humes.

 Here are some blankies you can win! 




Have Fun!
You can visit our website @ http://www.lullabyblankies.com/

Tuesday, June 14, 2011

San Diego Getaway

Last June my husband and I went on a safari in South Africa for our honeymoon. South Africa was truly a trip of a lifetime. It was so amazing to be literally like a foot away from wild animals. We decided to relive the experience and visit the San Diego Zoo. We also are trying to take as many mini vacations as we can before starting the next IVF cycle. Here are some pictures from the Zoo and San Diego.....


Itchy Elephant

Rattlesnake

Praying Gorilla...Love this!


Beautiful La Jolla Cove with Sea Lions


Friday, June 10, 2011

The New "Curry in a Hurry"

Ever since going to Thailand, my husband and I have been obsessed with Thai cuisine. I especially LOVE curry and all the health benefits of it. Did you know that curry can help prevent Alzheimer's disease? Yup...I eat plenty of it because it is a disease that runs in my family. I used to make a dish that my husband and I loved called "Curry in a Hurry." But after discovering this new recipe from www.skinnytaste.com, this our new "Curry in a Hurry."



Here is the recipe courtesy of www.skinnytaste.com...I altered it a little bit
(original recipe is "Thai Coconut Curry Shrimp")

1 tsp olive oil
4 scallions, whites and greens separated, chopped     
2 tbsp of red curry paste (used THAI brand)
2 cloves garlic, minced
2 chicken breasts sliced in thin pieces 
4 oz of low fat coconut milk
2 tsp of fish sauce (used THAI brand)
1/4 chopped fresh cilantro

In a large skillet, heat oil. Add Chicken and cook 5 min. Add scallion whites and red curry paste, cook 2-3 mins. Add Garlic and cook 2 mins. Add coconut milk and fish sauce. Cook until chicken is cooked through. Remove from heat, mix in scallion greens and cilantro. Serve with rice. 

It obviously was a HUGE hit....Hubby's belly is very happy :-)






Thursday, June 9, 2011

Acorn Calabasas Newspaper

We are so excited that the Acorn Newspaper wrote an article about Brandon and my experience with SMA. It is so important to us to spread awareness about this cruel disease. Here is the article....
                                                                                                  
         Couple Wants to Spread the Word about Little Known Genetic Disorder


STRENGTH IN NUMBERS—Brandon and Stephanie Humes, above, are joing forces with Bill and Victoria Strong in the fight against spinal muscular atrophy. The Humes learned they are both carriers of the disease. STRENGTH IN NUMBERS—Brandon and Stephanie Humes, above, are joing forces with Bill and Victoria Strong in the fight against spinal muscular atrophy. The Humes learned they are both carriers of the disease.A young local couple who wanted to start a family saw their dreams dashed when they learned they both carry a little-known genetic defect that kills more children than any other inherited disease.
A month after their storybook wedding in Santa Barbara in May 2010, Stephanie and Brandon Humes decided to start a family.
“ We both just really love children,” said Stephanie Humes, who grew up in Calabasas. “Even on our first date we talked about children. It was important to us to have a family young so we could travel with our kids and do fun things,” she said.
To ensure that their baby would be healthy, the couple visited an obstetrician who offered a long list of genetic tests, including one for spinal muscle atrophy (SMA).
Most children who have Type 1 spinal muscle atrophy die before age 3 due to muscle weakness and atrophy.
Although Stephanie and Brandon had never heard of SMA, she said she opted to get the test because it was one of the top three suggestions on her doctor’s list.
When results showed that she’s a carrier of the defective gene, the doctor suggested that Brandon also be tested.
His test also came back positive.
According to Humes, one in every 40 people carry the spinal muscle atrophy gene. Each year 1 in 6,000 babies is born with the genetic defect, which is classified in four types.
If both parents are carriers, the likelihood of a child becoming affected by a terminal form of the disease is 25 percent. About 50 percent of children born to parents who have the gene will carry it without adverse health effects and the remaining 25 percent are unaffected.
Most babies born with SMA appear healthy until symptoms such as floppy limps and difficulty with feeding appear about six months to a year later. As the disease progresses, children need round-the-clock care, breathing treatments and a feeding machine.
Since the brain is unaffected, children also become self-aware and frustrated about their physical limitations.
Rather than dwell on the negative, Stephanie began doing research online to learn more about the disorder and determine what she and her husband could do to have a healthy child.
The Humes decided to try in vitro fertilization because it allows doctors to test embryos for SMA before impregnation.
“We have had no luck so far but will continue to fight for the family we’re both longing for,” Humes said.
Since there is no treatment or cure for SMA and it’s not a standard prenatal test, the Woodland Hills couple joined forces with the Gwendolyn Strong Foundation to help raise awareness and find a cure for the disorder.
The foundation was created by Bill and Victoria Strong of Santa Barbara, whose daughter Gwendolyn was diagnosed with a terminal form of spinal muscular atrophy Type 1 at 6 months old.
“As witnesses to the degenerative cruelty of the genetic defect, Bill and Victoria are passionately dedicated to leaving no stone unturned in raising awareness about and funding research for SMA and supporting families who are impacted by SMA and other life-altering diseases,” Stephanie said. Victoria Strong is a former teacher at A.E. Wright and A.C. Stelle middle schools, she said.
The Humes, who are both 26, recently hosted a fundraiser at Fresh Brothers Pizza to help support the Gwendolyn Strong Foundation.
“We just really want to spread the word and help people to realize that it can happen to anybody,” said Brandon, a wedding photographer who grew up in Agoura Hills.
According to Brandon, most couples don’t think twice before they get pregnant. “Even couples who know our story choose to get pregnant without pre-birth tests.” But things can change in the “blink of an eye,” he said.
Stephanie, who runs a baby blanket website called Lullaby Blankies, said she donates 25 percent of proceeds earned through her business to help advance the Strong foundation’s cause.
For more informa- tion about SMA, visit www.thegwendolynstrongfoundation.com.



Tuesday, June 7, 2011

Build it and it Will Come!

For the past year, my husband and I have been wishing and praying for our little miracle. Well, I actually have been wishing and praying for a baby ever since I was a little girl. I cannot wait for that dream to come true and I become a Mommy. My Mom taught me so many things growing up and showed us the world, I am so thankful for that.  Like my Mom, my husband and I are most excited about teaching our children everything we possibly can. I can't wait to see their little minds grow and learn. It will melt my heart when I hear Mommy for the first time.

I know most people don't like to buy baby stuff till they are well into their pregnancy because they are afraid to jinx it. Well, I am the opposite...I say, "build it and it will come." It truly makes me happy and this process a little easier to take the occasional trip to Babies R Us. It gets me very excited for what the future holds. Here are some of my goodies....


IVF Update-
My recovery from my surgery has been very tough, a lot of unexplained things have happened. I also have been on so many hormones..another one of the many joys of IVF. I think that is my husband's favorite part....NOT! I am now getting to end of my recovery and things are starting to get better. I am counting the days till I start the medications and get this show on the road. I feel so good about this cycle and feel that my dreams of becoming a Mommy are going to come true.